The love wrap up, how did I do? Pretty damn good. My fiancé and I took the time to really discuss our marriage and what we want. I actually sent him my marriage post. I was shy about it but I thought it would be worth sharing, and it was. It really gave us the means to open up about our expectations, our hopes and also the work required on both parts to keep a loving and positive relationship. We did the Love Language, via Ashley, which was very eye opening (we are both #1 for Affirmation, but then he is Gifts, I am Quality time, which explains a lot.) We also took time during dinner to go over our Marriage book, full of fun questions like, how will you raise your children? (together) who handles money? (a big one but we reached a compromise) religion and politics(split red and blue down the middle). I know that we will never agree on everything but I feel pretty great about where we are heading and the foundation we have built.
Now on to Aging…hmmm…this is a hard one for me. I hate to admit it, but I might be the baby on this blog and as still under 30 (for a few more years at least) I am not really feeling the effects of aging. Sure, I get hangovers sometimes, but never too awful that I don’t want to drink. I can’t stay out until 3 am and then go to work at 8, but I don’t want to anyways. I have always had bags under my eyes, nothing new there. So I guess instead of focusing on the physical for aging, I thought I could focus on the mental and spiritual. You know, how can I be more mature, more professional, take myself more seriously. But really, that is boring and I am not sure I want to be more mature, professional or serious. So I guess I will be looking for inspiration this month and hopefully my next post will be more productive, as this one is not, sorry.
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