February was a great month for a new-love-awareness! Looking back the blog was a great reminder each week of what's important to focus on in my own relationship. A funnier "love" experience this month was the grand ole' tradition of eating your wedding cake on the 1 year mark. Now I don't know if it's because our wedding cake traveled cross country in a cooler back in October or what, but it wasn't pretty and it certainly wasn't tasty! I was actually totally grossed out by it and haven't wanted cake since, which is very odd, trust me. So I'm curious if any of you had a good experience with this tradition. Right now I'm wondering who the hell made it up and why! (I still wish I had eaten more cake at my reception).
I blogged about my husband and my biological clocks syncing up earlier in the month (do men have one?). We finally arrived on the same page about this subject and it hasn't come up since. I think we are both at peace with our feelings, and excited about trying to start a family... eventually. But first, we decided to plan a pretty major trip to Africa in the fall. If anyone has been please let me know!
I also ordered The Mastery of Love. I haven't read yet, but I'm looking forward to it...
Last night we watched Julie and Julia on netflix. I could have done without the Julie part, but the story of Julia Child was so great! It was such a love story. Her marriage was an inspiration, and made me think fondly about growing old with my husband.
And finally, I will leave you a photo of the scary 1 year old cake (before and after):
My biological clocked has never synced with anyone else's, so I'm so happy to hear that you & your husband are in agreement. Enjoy life, travel and the little moments together...sooner or later you will get to enjoy those with many more sidekicks. ;-)
ReplyDeleteMy husband and I saved our wedding cake topper for our 1st anniversary in Oct 2008, and it was absolutely disgusting...I never had a bite at our reception and I can't even stand the thought of buttercream now!
Oh no! I hope I'm not ruined for cake forever. I used to love it so...
ReplyDeleteOur baker asked if we would like to keep ours and I am not keen to the idea or year old cake, ugghh!
ReplyDeleteWe did the 1 year cake thing too...yes disgusting. We were married in NYC - then we moved to TX - so I had my girlfriend take it to Nashville for me while we moved. Then she and her husband met us in Tahoe for our anniversary and she brought the cake...by then I really couldn't even think about eating it (plus I was pregnant) so I had a crumb. That counts too though. And it's good for funny stories right!?
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